I am often amazed at some of the comments pregnant and new mums receive from both their nearest and dearest and complete strangers who feel the need to share their words of wisdom. Comments can range from observations on the size or shape of their bump (“you’re going to be early/late”, “it’s definitely a boy/girl”, “are you sure it’s not twins?”), criticisms of their labour choices (“don’t mess about – have an epidural”, “homebirth is so dangerous”, “you’ve got a rubbish pain